Your New Jersey Wedding Officiant

Custom, Personalized Ceremonies

 Together, we will craft a personal and unique wedding ceremony from scratch that reflects your story and honors your union!  We can do this in several ways:  We can write the wedding ceremony together, choosing readings, side ceremonies and any other traditions or unique features you'd like to include or, you can entrust me to take what I've learned about you and create the ceremony for you.  This all inclusive ceremony is our most popular!

Standard Short & Sweet Intimate Ceremonies

 If your wedding will be more intimate and/or you don't want the fuss of a formal custom ceremony, I offer a choice of pre-written, standard ceremonies (written by me) that range from a simple traditional "I do" to a lovely brief spiritual ceremony. You can take one "as is" or "mix and match" sections to create your own unique ceremony!   All short & sweet wedding ceremonies are able to have limited personalization added. For a small additional fee, we can add any side ceremony.  

Let's Elope!

 Do you already have your marriage license or are you planning to run and get one in the next few days and just want to get married legally?  While you can't really "elope" in NJ, you can apply for and get your license in approximately 72 hours and you can have a quick and quiet wedding ceremony.  I get to choose the ceremony, and you can choose a location within 10 miles of Hillsborough, NJ, or let me suggest a great little spot for you.  You and 2 witnesses are all you need, along with a few words from me for the legal part and you can be married tonight, tomorrow or this weekend  (as long as I'm available!) 

Vow Renewals

 Whether you've been together for a few months or many years, a Vow Renewal Ceremony is a lovely way of reminding yourself, your family and your children of your commitment to each other and the depth of your love.  Perhaps you had a small wedding ceremony the first time around and you'd like to celebrate now with your family and friends.  Or, maybe you're celebrating a special wedding anniversary and you want to recommit yourselves to your marriage.  It is my pleasure to be able to co-create with you, a loving and meaningful ceremony.  


 I am honored to be a Wedding Officiant for lesbian and gay couples in New Jersey. I believe that all couples should have the ability to enjoy all the rights of marriage to celebrate their love and commitment. Your decision to take this step and make this commitment is long awaited and a joyous choice and I am delighted to help you celebrate!  

Pricing, Locations

I am happy to officiate wedding ceremonies big and small, anywhere in the greater Central NJ area!

I have been honored to receive Wedding Wire's Couple's Choice Award every year for the last 9 years! 

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